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The Heart of Change
As I was teaching with Matt James at the Accelerated Master Practitioner Training this year in Newport Beach there was some excellent discussion about how to use NLP techniques to get the greatest level of impact.  I have had students ask, "How many times do you see a client?" or "How many sessions does it take to get to the problem resolved?"


In many therapies, the process is to have the client continue to return for a number of sessions, chipping away at each layer of the problem until such time that the problem is finally resolved.  Sigmund Freud believed it would take years to let go of even one negative emotion using his "talk therapy".  What we do as excellent NLP Master Practitioners is fast, powerful change work that can last forever.  How thorough the change work is will define the number of times the client returns to work on the same or similar issues that are linked to a greater problem.  The client's results will define the NLP Master Practitioner's success and will drive business to his or her door.


Getting back to the roots of NLP, a client will present their problem utilizing the best language they can at the time.  Keeping in mind that the map is not the territory, we need to realize that the words the client is using does not describe the actual problem.  We refer to these words as the surface structure of language.  They describe an example of a greater problem.  The deep structure of the language helps us to understand more accurately what the greater problem is.


If our change work is based on the surface structure language that the client presents, then our client's results will be incremental and lacking the energy needed for real change to occur.  Using our language skills and techniques such as the Meta Model, we can begin to discover the presuppositions in the client's language and uncover the lost information that will reveal the deep structure and potentially the greater problem.  It is not enough to be exquisite with our language to get the deep structure.  This only makes it possible to reach the greater problem.


A thorough intervention, one that resolves the greater problem, requires a process to drill down through the language, representing the context, process and structure, thus revealing the underlying patterns manifested from the greater problem.


We use and teach a process called the Detailed Personal History.  By spending 2 to 3 hours up front with the client you can learn the nature of the greater problem and create powerful, meaningful change.


For our studentsÉ I recommend that you learn and practice the Detailed Personal History.  It is a process that distinguishes you and your skills as a Master Practitioner.  Being time-tested, the Detailed Personal History, when applied in your break through therapy session, will help you find the greater problem and help your client make the deepest change possible.  After all, that is why we are here isnÕt it?

You're In Control

I just finished teaching a Hypnotherapy Certification class in San Jose, CA. What a great class! There was some excellent discussion that lead to greater awareness about what hypnosis is from the experience of the client and how the client demonstrates their control over creating the hypnotic phenomenon.

It is absolutely necessary that the client fully understand that they are in control at all times. This is part of the process of empowering your client.

In all classes that we teach, we install in our students this simple precept, "It is not your job to change people. Your job is to empower them to change."

In the Krasner Method of Hypnotherapy, we use convincers to know the client is in a trance. It also is an opportunity to have them learn, unconsciously, that they are in control and have total power over their lives. Do you remember the first time you were hypnotized? You probably had a dialog running in your head that sounded something like, "I'm I there? Is this hypnosis? Hmmm. How do I know? I can hear everything the hypnotherapist is saying and I don't really feel hypnotized." And then the hypnotherapist gives suggestions that your leg becomes heavy, too heavy to lift. When asked to test this you find leg just wonÕt move. That then becomes proof that you are hypnotized. Now, because you are in control, and we agreed that you would be, you know that you can take away the relaxation and lift your leg - but, it just feels fine leaving it right there.

During this process your client's conscious and unconscious mind learns about 'choice' and the empowering state that arises when they exercise 'choice' to achieve the things they desire. Like achieving goals, the client must focus and put energy into creating the hypnotic phenomenon. When the client focuses with all their energy and beliefs the result is instant!

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